How to get rid of the fear of being rejected by a girl?

How to get rid of the fear of being rejected by a girl?

Many guys face such a problem when they meet a very beautiful girl and do not dare to show interest in her, because they are afraid that this girl will reject them.

If you are one of these guys, then in this article I will try to help you overcome this fear, because when you get rid of this fear, you will feel better not only with girls but in general in life.

Well, let's get down to business.

1. Impossible to please every girlfriend:

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The simple truth. You can take the richest, handsome, successful guy on earth and still there is a girl who does not like him. It also works in the opposite direction. You can take some super attractive Megan Fox and many guys will say that they do not like her at all.

And it’s not even a matter of appearance, because when you consider a girl attractive, you base her attractiveness on various criteria based not only on appearance.

There is such a thing as an “ideal” when something or someone completely fits all your criteria. If we are talking about relations between girls and men, then usually the criteria are as follows:

1. Social status

2. Appearance

3. Mentality

4. Emotional resemblance

You should understand that there are girls who are very strict about such criteria. You can be very beautiful and smart, but a girl still will not begin any relationship with you if, for example, you like to go to parties all the time, and she likes to spend time at home.

2. Each time it will be easier and easier:

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Being able to attract girls is a skill that needs to be learned. It's like being able to drive well. When you get behind the wheel for the first time, you feel insecure, not comfortable, but if you continue to learn how to drive a car, get right and drive it for several years, you begin to feel at ease. Same thing with the girls. This is a skill that needs to be developed.

3. In many cases, the girl does not reject the guy, but simply checks him:

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If you read my blog, then you already know that most attractive girls behave specifically as if they were not at all interesting to you. There are many different reasons why they behave this way, but the main reason is checking the guy for self-confidence. Every girl dreams of an emotionally strong guy who will always feel confident in any situation. He will not become upset due to failures, he will always remain calm and reasonable in any situation, he is not afraid of anything, and especially girls. And if a guy passes this test, then he begins to attract the girl even more.