Committed Relationships - Overcoming Blame, Hurt and Judgment

Committed Relationships - Overcoming Blame, Hurt and Judgment

What are the emotional system core beliefs and behaviors that we operate from your life? This is what makes your love story and habits of love, which is what your soul has come to learn.

His soul chooses his personality (introvert, extrovert, the country where he was born, his body, his natural gifts, etc.) to his parents and his life story so that you can learn how to overcome the challenges of love.

Sometimes, the challenges they face in love and relationships have no logical sense.

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That is when it is useful to observe emotions to understand why the soul chose these emotions and the soul and the person who has come to learn. Through understanding, can I give meaning to their suffering, but not suffering from the suffering.

The person also chooses a certain body to learn certain lessons - and this choice is based or what they need to learn or what you need to help you learn.

I teach how to listen and talk to your body and how to balance the emotions so that your love life is liberated from the suffering of old habits of love that will not live the love you want.

In these times of "change" old paradigm new paradigm, many couples are experiencing high levels of discontent because male and female models are shifting from fixed to be flexible.

We are still anchored in the heart through love, but male and female roles are asking that attachment surrender to what is expected that the other person is or perform, so that we can grow into higher forms of love that they are limited by our society. And instead, connect to universal forms and unconditional love in which we see the whole person and accept them without entering into what our mind can think or want the other person is.

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higher forms of love are now available because the planet is becoming a higher sense, that the planet has never had access to before. means ratios the 'change' are changing dynamics. Couples face the challenge of rising beyond his fights and mind-talk to ask what love really is - for themselves individually - or as a couple. As a result, old fears (of this life and previous lives) are coming to the surface, where any and all wounds will be re-experienced - so we can let go, heal, understand and forgive.

Couples now have more support from the highest forms of love now supporting the planet to do this within relationships. As a coach, couples and individuals and support groups to learn about this and teach them how to keep themselves and / or their partner as old wounds become recognized and finally processed.

I do not think that if someone "fails" in a relationship that are not lovers of themselves efficiently or 'enough' or that they are losing a process that will keep your lover or save the relationship. This is what linear and logical mind would say as a way to measure the success of material reality. Love is not measured by experience life without pain, breakups, conflict, sadness or happiness ever after. Love is measured by how to respond to disturbances, problems, hurts and how to respond and return his love and the same ways of accepting the pain, heal and move on. It hurts not go away without some reflection and awareness. However often forgiveness can not be forced. Forgiveness begins with a willingness to look where they have been too hard on yourself and others and resisted the same opening that would allow forgiveness to happen.

Relationships do not stay together because of we and our society, able to provide spaces or opportunities for people to deal with the pain.

So my recommendation for those of you who are looking to change their relationships with brighter and more love note is to first start by not pointing the finger at others and what they did, to soften, to feel his own pain and question - "What do I feel?" Then once you allow yourself to feel and sense, you will notice a softness - maybe sadness - or numerous amounts of feelings. Then ask yourself: "If I had to be loving to myself, what would you do about this feeling?". What the transformation process begins that is not doing - but rather on the transformation of the feelings that keep us from feeling able to do, create and be what we are.

Only when we nourish approaches and practices ourselves will be a pain within us faced and accepted. And then the individual will be able to let it go and come to its relations with joy, acceptance and safer space more profound to be vulnerable and share that with someone who wants deeper intimacy.

Start asking questions about how you can accept more than the parts of it that are too quick to criticize, they get stressed or expect others to be 'perfect'. The facility you maybe will quickly spread to their loved ones.

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