How to motivate yourself when things don’t go well.

How to motivate yourself when things don’t go well.

Changing things is not in your hand but you can change yourself. If there are things, people or situations demotivating you, try to overcome these negative obstacles and motivate yourself.

Discover your true self in a bad situation, because bad events happen to test our capability. You can cry and sit or you can stand and fight, to face those bad events first thing you’d need to do is to throw out all negative thoughts from your mind.

Motivate yourself in a bad situation to fight the obstacles, discover yourself.

No negative thoughts: First throw out negative thoughts because negative thoughts would grab your feet and won’t let you grow. Negative people and thoughts would make you doubtful on your abilities. Being doubtful about yourself won’t let you take risk and risks may give you good result. Trust your ability, not the negative perceptions of other people.

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Do what you are good at: Find your uniqueness, there must be something you are good at but you are not taking it seriously. We all have something unique but we don’t recognise it as others don’t appreciate and demoralise us but this unique quality may lead us to success. Find your niche.

Stop questioning your ability: Without trying, do not quit. Questioning your ability would not take you anywhere because every successful person has taken some risks in life and has seen failures in order to achieve something. Trust your inner guts, one doesn’t need money to succeed, success demand ability to do something and perseverance.

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Read successful individual’s life story: learn from experts and how they came out of the bad situations in their life and how they have achieved success in their life because their life does not differ from our lives. Read their struggle and success story because every story motivates us differently.

Come out of Isolation: isolating ourselves when you are depressed would make you more depressed, negative thoughts would swirl around and trap you in the situation. Spend time with loved ones, kids, or in nature. Finding yourself in nature is good but completely isolating yourself would not help you in reaching on a decision.

Be creative: Find yourself by involving in creative activities, and you maybe find yourself good at something. Not everyone is made to do businessmen/women because everyone can be a businessman but not every businessman is a successful businessman.



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So be creative, have ideas, work on your ideas thoroughly, write down the pros and cons of it. You could be anything else, not just a businessman but anyone, writer, poet, painter, marketer anything. But you have to find your uniqueness.

Failure is an integral part of success. Do not afraid of failing anything because success’s path is made of failure.